In this workshop we look at what it means in everyday life that technology is not neutral. How do patriarchal & heteronormative power relations form our digital life? Which needs & experiences are not taken into account in technology that is mostly designed by white, cis men? Further, we are going to look at types of gender based digital violence in order to exchange self defense strategies. We can learn from each other and feminist groups that engage in this field. Not only talking about how to protect and defense oneself, but also envisioning safer digital tech.